VOX ATL's Isabella Cavienss speaks directly to teens who are living with and learning to understand their "underlying conditions." Read on
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Sometimes it is easier to show how you feel. So, I chose objects around me that represented the experience around my mental health journey. sometimes it’s felt musical, i’ve wanted to sing how i felt but scared no one would listen when I feel overwhelmed and anxious, i clean to make myself present and gain… Read on
by Daya Brown, Westlake High School Have you ever imagined the mind of young women? Let’s start off with the fact: it’s a lot that happens up there. Some may think that there is a warzone of thoughts that happen in their minds. According to Shahilla Barok, a lifestyle coach and NLP practitioner, women have… Read on
‘Dear Adults:’ Teens Share Quarantine Frustrations in Video PSA
Social distancing — and schooling during social distancing — isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. While this is a difficult and strenuous time for many, we’ve heard a few assumptions regarding teens and mental health. To give adults a glimpse of what we’re going through, we put together a public service announcement against the backdrop of Zoom call. We want to address the notions that because we’re working from home, or that we’re young, we have it easy.
From technical difficulties to having an unprecedented pandemic color our thoughts and actions, learning through a screen for hours and staying confined to our homes can be mentally taxing. According to PsyCom, “academic stress, social stress, family discord, world events, traumatic events, and significant life changes” are six common triggers that lead to teen stress. At this current time, we’re experiencing most, if not all, of these, and stress can have a negative impact on mental and physical health.
Over time, according to the National Institute of Mental Health, stress can “contribute to serious health problems, such as heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, and other illnesses, including mental disorders such as depression or anxiety.”
Although the school year is over, we are still facing isolation at home, while all summer programs, school, and most socializing takes place on video conferencing. Not to mention the ongoing stress of a pandemic and recent violence. Stress still rings loudly.
Tips from Teens to Show You Understand
With space and opportunity to acknowledge the problem, here are actionable tips for adults to positively connect with teens and create positive experiences this summer.
A regular time for family
In this time of general connection-deficiency, where the ability to truly connect is decreasing by the day, some responsibility falls upon families to make up for lack of outside contact. Sharing a space doesn’t necessarily inform support or community (especially when children grow beyond the age of necessary tending), but it definitely can and (especially in this case) should.
Some ways that parents could foster familial connection…could include taking a walk/hike together, cooking together, reading together, or building something as a family. With structure and fluid outside communication all but lost to the pandemic, having a regular time for family connection could certainly aid in making young people feel less alone.
– Dinah Rogers, 15, Decatur High School
Ask us what we’re up to and give us a break
In order for parents to ‘recognize our struggle,’ they have to ask us questions. Not only should y’all ask us questions, but you should also check in to see what we’ve been up to and realize our signs of stress or fatigue. I would like to hear parents ask more often: ‘How’s your day?’ or ‘What’s been on your mind lately?’ I would also like to see parents not over use their kids during this time. We understand we’re in the house all day, but that shouldn’t mean we have to clean all day everyday. Everyone deserves a break. Give it to us.
– Roderick Thomas, Jr., 16, Homeschooled
Be empathetic
Realizing that we are all going through a very difficult time in our lives, parents should dig deep into a time that was difficult for them and try to connect with our situation, and give support where teens need It. It is crucial to be an ally, and aid teens in an empathetic way to show us that our feelings are valued. Adults and the youth must work together to help one another in this difficult time.
– India Rice, 16, Westlake High
Hear us out — fully
Make sure that you listen to your teens in order to understand, not to respond. If they are trying to explain how they feel to you, try not to interrupt them while speaking and wait until they finish. This will help them express their feelings and let them know that you care about what they have to say.
– Christina Norris, 19, Georgia State University
Suggest outside time
This new life without school and work structure is difficult for everyone, no matter their ability to regulate themselves and their time. Sometimes, the best thing a parent can do is to remind their kid to get some fresh air. A bit of time outside may do more good than you think.
– Dinah Rogers, 15, Decatur High School
Acknowledge us
Sometimes, all teens need is for parents to acknowledge and understand what they are going through and having to handle in times of isolation and overwhelming situations, such as what we are living through now.
– Emory, 17, Walton High School
Featured in the video: Cayla Lamar, India Rice, Christina Norris, Isabella Cavienss, Dinah Rogers, Emory Paul, Roderick Thomas Jr.
Special thanks to our producer for this video, Darriea Clark, VOX ATL alumna and Special Projects Editor.
Music credit: Bensounds.com
VOX ATL’s mental health coverage and community workshops are funded by the Georgia Department of Behavior Health and Developmental Disabilities. (DBHDD). Views expressed in this material are the work of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the views of the GA DBHDD.
If you or someone you know needs help, please call or text one of these resources!
Georgia Crisis & Access Line (GCAL) – 1-800-715-4225, available 24/7
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 1-800-273-TALK (8255) also offers 24/7 connection with a trained counselor at a local crisis center, or Text “START” to 741-741
The Trevor Project – suicide prevention hotline for LGTBQ youth ages 13-24, Text “Trevor” to 202-304-1200 Thurs.-Fri. (4-8 p.m.) or call (866) 488-7386 – 24/7
"Last week, my averaged screen time nine hours, 15 minutes a day. I was posting pictures of me being silly when, in reality, I wasn’t happy at all." Read on
VOX 5: How to Stay Healthy and Productive in Quarantine
Keeping up with school assignments can be difficult and cause stress while at home. To help with health and productivity, VOX ATL staff writer Bria Brown shares what has helped her and gives tips and resources. In addition to the above video, read further insight below.
Get Enough Sleep
I understand how tempting it is to stay up all night, do whatever you want for the entire day, and not worry about your sleep schedule while you’re out of school. However, these may not be the best decisions. Your sleep schedule is extremely important for your overall mental and physical health. Nutritionist Afya Ibomu tells VOX ATL, “Young adults need at least eight hours to maintain and improve focus.” Ibomu also stated that a lack of sleep can lead to a compromised immune system, which can leave you vulnerable to COVID-19 (the novel coronavirus).
During this time we are responsible for teaching ourselves. The rest of this school year may prove difficult if we do not take care of ourselves. To make sure that we are healthy, happy and productive while we’re stuck home, our sleep schedules will have to remain consistent. So please just get enough sleep and make sure that you’re fully rested every day.
Get Dressed
For the past year-and-a-half, I’ve been doing online college work while in dual-enrollment. I understand that it’s difficult to get motivated when in the comfort of your own home. I’ve learned through trial-and-error that working from home requires you to think of creative ways to motivate yourself. Ways you do this may be to create a schedule for yourself in advance, follow a routine, meditate, etc. To get into the mindset of productivity, I suggest getting dressed as though you were about to go to work or school.
Make A ‘To-Do’ List
Creating a to-do list is another great way to ensure that you stay productive, so you can get back to enjoying this time off from school!
Eat Well
This may go without saying, but food is incredibly important! The right foods can boost your mental capacity, make it easier for you to understand complex issues, clear your skin, and stabilize your sleep schedule. However, the wrong foods can make it incredibly difficult to stay focused, damage your skin, and ruin your sleep. The most common issue with teenage nutrition is the overconsumption of junk and fast foods. Though some teens are moving to a plant-based diet, the issue of consistent and healthy eating habits is still very prevalent. Ibomu recommends that teens drink at least 64 ounces of water and eat green veggies three times a day. She also recommends fresh fruits and veggies daily. This can strengthen your immune system and make you less susceptible to COVID-19!
Do Activities
Binge-watching Netflix is a nice thing when you have free time. It can expose you to new things that you never thought you would like before. However, it may not be the most healthy or productive thing to just sit around and consume hours upon hours of content. Instead, take up some hobbies like yoga, guitar, sewing, etc. This way you can make sure that you’re engaging in something fun that can broaden your horizons.
Bonus: Relax
While relaxing after long days of work at home, it could be extremely rewarding to get some rest, indulge in consuming your favorite content, eat the foods you like (in moderation, of course!), or contact friends and family.
Even though you may not be a social person, staying in touch with friends and family may be one of the most important things you do. After all, it’s very possible to lose your sense of self while stuck in quarantine. So go holla at your friends and family and let them know how you’ve been. It’s important not only to chat but to make sure they’re okay and maintain your mental health! After that, go and enjoy your break!
VOX ATL’s mental health coverage and community workshops are funded by the Georgia Department of Behavior Health and Developmental Disabilities. (DBHDD). Views expressed in this material are the work of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the views of the GA DBHDD.
If you or someone you know needs help, please call or text one of these resources!
Georgia Crisis & Access Line (GCAL) – 1-800-715-4225, available 24/7
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 1-800-273-TALK (8255) also offers 24/7 connection with a trained counselor at a local crisis center, or Text “START” to 741-741
The Trevor Project – suicide prevention hotline for LGTBQ youth ages 13-24, Text “Trevor” to 202-304-1200 Thurs.-Fri. (4-8 p.m.) or call (866) 488-7386 – 24/7