Kate’s Club, a nonprofit supporting kids and teens who’ve experienced the death of a parent or sibling, asked VOX to bring the Mic to their Clubhouse. They wrote, drew and sang about living with grief. (To invite VOX to bring the mic to your organization, click here.)
Untitled Song – Click here for the video
By Malakai Brown, 15 (melody) and Wayne Brown, 18 (rap)
(melody)
They tell me That it’s alright
They tell me go ‘head and cry
They tell me that it’s ok to grieve
just let it out
it’s alright if you scream
oh they tell me that you’re in a better place
but I still feel that sorrow
They tell me that you’re still in my heart
though I know that we’re still apart
Oh oh every night I think of you
when I’m feelin’ sad I don’t know what to do
Oh oh If I think about it hard
enough I can still hear your
voice in the air
Know how to get me X2
(rap)
My journey is like an adventure. Grief is everywhere. Everywhere.
But you don’t know me ‘cus
My life is like an adventure
Da grief is everywhere
And it’ll always be right there
Like sittin’ in a chair
It may not be fair
Ya don’t have ta care
And I’m grieving
So don’t stare
You don’t know me
So don’t throw me
And they always tryna know me
I’m Scared
By Lilian Dixon, 15
“I’m scared to get close and I have being alone I long for that feeling to not feel at all the higher I get the lower I sink I can’t drown my demons they know how to swim”
- Bring me the Horizon
I’m scared to get close to people because I’m scared they could leave me in the future. I feel like I’m alone sometimes, and I hate it. I just wish I could stop feeling sometimes. I simply can’t get rid of my negative thought because they know how to swim — meaning they’re there no matter what.
Taking the Burden
By R.F., 13
People say that nothing you did affected what happened. That there was nothing you could do or say that would have changed the outcome. But for me, I don’t think that is all true. The tiniest things can stay with people for a long time. Maybe, if they had expressed something was wrong and not just had a straight face, I would have responded differently and acted other ways. Just because I said this, I don’t believe thinking it was maybe of a fraction my doing is a terrible thing. Now (I) react differently to what people say and do my best to keep everyone happy and take the burden off them a bit. I don’t mind not being paid attention to a lot or being yelled at because maybe they just need to vent some stuff, and that is all right.
Kate’s Club’s fourth annual Memory Walk 2015 will be this Sunday, Nov. 15, at Piedmont Park for kids, teens and families. Details and registration are online at katesclub.org.